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Have you ever gone to sleep on the opposite side of the bed of your partner and wondered… “What am I doing with this person?”

I used to. I vacillated between thinking it was him… it was me… it wasn’t mean’t to be… when it really was an issue with relationship clarity.

For most partnerships, there isn’t a compatibility issue, there is a clarity issue. SO many things that are unclear. Without clarity there is a lack of awareness. Whatever we are unaware of, we can not change. What can can’t change doesn’t grow. And what isn’t growing drags us down and drains our vitality.

Is your relationship continually growing into vitality?

If not, here are some things you need to be clear on in order to have a successful partnership:

  • What are your goals? What are your partner’s goals?
  • What are your deal breakers (must have’s in relationship)? (I hope that your and your partner’s deal breakers are the same!)
  • What will you spend your money on?
  • What is your purpose? Their purpose?
  • What is the labor distribution in the house?
  • What are your ideals and agreements around sex?
  • How will you handle decision making? Conflict?

Once these things are clearly defined you can begin to expand further into them… further into your goals, purpose, sexual expression and fun! Where do you wish you were expanding further with your partner right now… the Bedroom? Business? Recreation?

Relationships that are clear KNOW that they are compatible. And with that clarity comes confidence, purpose and passion.

If your relationship is lacking vitality, where do you start? You’ve got two options. You can go it alone, or you can get some coaching. Why get coaching? Because it takes less time and is less risky than trying to figure it our by yourself. And unless you’re having mental health issues, why reach for therapy when coaching can be more effective?*

If you desire more clarity in your relationship, I invite you to have a clarity session. Just click on my email address ( and in the subject line put “clarity session” and we’ll give you the details!

Great relationships make life worth living!

In Joy-

Ani Anderson

*Findings based my findings as an occupational therapist, having over 2 decades of personal experience serving therapists as clients, and clients who have had years of therapy.


PS- Whenever you’re ready, here are 3 ways you can go deeper today…
1) Grab a copy of our book, Find Your Soul’s Agenda– It’s our #1 strategy to help you identify both your purpose and your most habitual self sabotaging patterns. Click here for the book site.
2) Join the Soul’s Agenda Circle– It’s our facebook community where intentional difference makers gather to support each others growth. Click here to join the community.
3) Work with us privately– If you’re ready to learn how eliminate negative emotions of fear, anger, sadness, anxiety and stress so you can be a positive light force in the world- click here! We’ll get back to you with a time to chat!